Natbar, are you there?
Yes.
Decided.
What?
Not to carry.
Hmmm... reason?
She is not willing.
You?
I wanted to carry but... she is the only person who has to bear all the pains (physical) during either courses of action ... I can support, I can stand by her side but I cant' have the pain... so ...
Is she aware about the pros and cons?
We talked with doctors... major said we can carry ... there may be no problem ... in very rare cases there are possibilities of some problems during advanced stages... not any major problem... in case of abortion, medicine is not a good idea for its least effectiveness and associated side effects... the way left, is to "wash"! ... "washing" may, too, be associated with some problems as the stitches are not enough cured... problems are in either sides... benefits are in either sides...
Explain.
If we decide to carry... then our family planning may be concluded... both child may be cared simultaneously... the mother may have some time to cure its present weak stitches... but, if we decide not to carry then the process of washing is to be done at the earliest which may create some problems for the stitches... and generally, washing does not adversely affect future pregnancy... but we have to do an USG as soon as possible...
When?
Tomorrow.
Do it positively. Take care for both of you.
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