Natbar... natbar ... where are you?
I am here.
Why I am not getting you for a long time?
You did not search for me...
No I searched.
I did not get your call... you were busy.
Yes, I was... but I was in need of your help...
I am always, here! Tell me...
Many things happened...
Tell me categorically.
Okkay.... did you felt the tremor on earth on 25th and 26th April 2015?
The Nepal Earth Quake?
Yes
Why not... I was scared.
We all.
Natbar, I was so scared that on 26th I decided to shift to a friends apartment with family at the first floor somewhere at our town. I was so scared because, you know we live in the 5th floor and the lift should be avoided... and the baby, ma, and my expecting wife... all were at my concern...
Wait wait... did you say "expecting wife"? Are you decided to carry on?
Yes... didn't I tell you?
No... as I can remember you said not to carry... was it? However, I think good decision... I told me you would contact with some doctors individually for their separate opinions... did you do that?
Yes... I contacted with five doctors ... note their opinions... and my wife said that she would go for carrying in... didn't I told you?
Might be... sorry, if it seem I forgot all these... please don't take it otherwise... I do not want to hurt you... however, then what you did on 26th?
Hhhh.. however, my ma opined that my wife would not feel comfort at a friend's apartment in those days... she should be left to her own house for security measures as her home is one storied and there is lot of plains for safety purpose...
Very wise opinion...
So, accordingly on that very afternoon ma and I dropped my wife and son to my in-laws house. And said that we would come after three or four days to pick up them for home... once we all are assured that the earth would not vibrate again!
Simple things.
After some day when we were more or less assured that everything is ok now... I called my wife to consult in which day she would like to return... she said she would not return...
Why? again?
Really, Natbar, this time I had no clues... we did not have any quarrel recently... and there was actually no issue...
Then?
After talking a while she said she wold return after one week... on Friday.
Ok... it seems ok.
But I said that it would be better if she come earlier than that... no bargaining ... but I am concern about the health of the baby as these days are very hot and humid.
Then...
On Tuesday I noticed that the next immunization date is on Thursday... so I remembered her on Tuesday.
Then...
On Wednesday, she called me and said that no one from her family is capable to drop her due to massive work load... so it may be good if I help her...
Then....
After contacting my source I got one driver from my father's office who would be able to spare time on Thursday from 5 AM to max. 8:30 AM....
Very morning...
Yes... otherwise we had to travel by bus which might not be so justified considering the health status of our son...
yes it is... then?
I contacted with my wife and she agreed with me....
Good.
On Thursday, i.e., today we, me and Babulalda (the driver) started in the morning at around 6:30 AM and after willfully wasting some time I reached there at around 8:30 AM... we wasted time as she told me over phone that she is not ready yet..
Okay... then
Every thing was going well... suddenly my FiLaw said that he will come some days and will pick them for some social culture such as "Mama Bhat" for our son...
Hmmm....
I said it is not possible and feasible for the baby.... as every one knows about the health conditions of the baby.... and I, particularly, cannot manage to attend any program in recent times... although, it may be helpful if I know in which time he will go to take her...
Then...
Natbar, what I should tell you... they just started shouting like hell.... in front of the driver ... and one thing my MiLaw said which just killed me... ignited me...
what...
She said, "each day I usually come home drunken and severally beat my wife..."
What?
Yes... Natbar... yes... and she was telling all these things in front of me but not to me... she was telling shouting to my driver, Babulalda!
What are you saying?
As you are hearing... Natbar... is it possible? Is it possible in a Flat? is it possible particularly when I reside along with my parents? Yes we celebrate occasionally ... within our family... but is it possible to drink outside and to beat my wife frequently? Will the society of the flat allow me? Am I like that? Have you ever seen any one to tell me about my such activities, ever?
Boss... right now I am not thinking such rubbish things right now... I am thinking that she told such things in front of your driver... and the driver is from uncle's present office... do they know that person... do they know that, babulal da or what may be is from uncle's office...
yeas they know him very well... because many a times Babulalda helped us while visiting doctors... and on 26th babulal da was the driver... we spent there at least 1 hour in that house with babulalda....
Then, dear I must say... they did it INTENTIONALLY... dishonor... defame... you ... your family... otherwise... if , for argument's sake, I believe that you beat your wife then they should talk with your family members first... should warn you... and then go for legal activities... did they said any thing to your family members or you in previous time?
Natbar... I SWEAR IN THE NAME OF MY SON... they (my FIL & MIL) never told me any thing about this... and I believe that they did not say any thing to any of my family members... i.e., baba, ma, dada, boudi... if they did so then not a single person will spare me... never... at least they will talk with me in this respect....
Then what is this?
Natbar, just imagine what was going on my mind in that time? I can not take it any more... are they planning to destroy me?
But why?
I don't exactly know... there may be many reasons... probably as I don't like Uncle-In-Laws for their behavior ... but one thing.... my wife is continuously pressuring me to be separated from my family from the very beginning.... I don't know the reason... but she is doing and I can tell that swearing in the name of my son.... but I don't want to be separated..
But... whatever they did ... I am confused.... did you tell to your parents about these things?
Half of the events told... not all. I did not tell that Babulal da was there or he was invited by FIL into the matter.
Invited means?
My FIL just called babulalda from the car and told him that I am creating antisense over there?
What?
Yes!
Are they insane?
In afternoon today, I had a talk with Babulalda and he just said that "amra lok choriye khai dada... apner sathe manachee na.... ami gotodin-e bujhechilam ... egulo to bolte parina... driver... kintu apni mone kasto paben na.... easily tackle karar chesta korun.... okhane kichu bojhano mane hatike jangiya porano... apni kono step neben na.... bachatar dike takiyee ektu kasto korun.... sir er katha bhabun ... kakimunir katha bhabun.... jadi kokhono mone kosto hoy.... borodada bhebe amar sathe kotha bolun... jodi apni amake apner joggyo mone koren.... ami kichu kharap paini..." ... we had a talk of 14-15 minutes...
Although , what if uncle know the facts... ie babulalda and the allegations ?
He will simply die... die out of shock...
That is.... be careful...
I am trying...
Did the immunization completed?
Yes... ultimately... I manage... but my baby is suffering from diarrhea... they just did not inform me... I knew it just before going to the doctor...
Boss... you should take a break....
From which?
From your life ... from your pains...
Ha ha ha ha haha haha... Natbar, I think I should leave home and go to some mess?
Why?
At least at a mess my wife will not be there and no one will blame me with such rubbish unbelievable...
Think... think think about it.
Yes I must think!
Bye!
Bye! But be judicious... be with serenity...
Ha ha ha ha....
I am here.
Why I am not getting you for a long time?
You did not search for me...
No I searched.
I did not get your call... you were busy.
Yes, I was... but I was in need of your help...
I am always, here! Tell me...
Many things happened...
Tell me categorically.
Okkay.... did you felt the tremor on earth on 25th and 26th April 2015?
The Nepal Earth Quake?
Yes
Why not... I was scared.
We all.
Natbar, I was so scared that on 26th I decided to shift to a friends apartment with family at the first floor somewhere at our town. I was so scared because, you know we live in the 5th floor and the lift should be avoided... and the baby, ma, and my expecting wife... all were at my concern...
Wait wait... did you say "expecting wife"? Are you decided to carry on?
Yes... didn't I tell you?
No... as I can remember you said not to carry... was it? However, I think good decision... I told me you would contact with some doctors individually for their separate opinions... did you do that?
Yes... I contacted with five doctors ... note their opinions... and my wife said that she would go for carrying in... didn't I told you?
Might be... sorry, if it seem I forgot all these... please don't take it otherwise... I do not want to hurt you... however, then what you did on 26th?
Hhhh.. however, my ma opined that my wife would not feel comfort at a friend's apartment in those days... she should be left to her own house for security measures as her home is one storied and there is lot of plains for safety purpose...
Very wise opinion...
So, accordingly on that very afternoon ma and I dropped my wife and son to my in-laws house. And said that we would come after three or four days to pick up them for home... once we all are assured that the earth would not vibrate again!
Simple things.
After some day when we were more or less assured that everything is ok now... I called my wife to consult in which day she would like to return... she said she would not return...
Why? again?
Really, Natbar, this time I had no clues... we did not have any quarrel recently... and there was actually no issue...
Then?
After talking a while she said she wold return after one week... on Friday.
Ok... it seems ok.
But I said that it would be better if she come earlier than that... no bargaining ... but I am concern about the health of the baby as these days are very hot and humid.
Then...
On Tuesday I noticed that the next immunization date is on Thursday... so I remembered her on Tuesday.
Then...
On Wednesday, she called me and said that no one from her family is capable to drop her due to massive work load... so it may be good if I help her...
Then....
After contacting my source I got one driver from my father's office who would be able to spare time on Thursday from 5 AM to max. 8:30 AM....
Very morning...
Yes... otherwise we had to travel by bus which might not be so justified considering the health status of our son...
yes it is... then?
I contacted with my wife and she agreed with me....
Good.
On Thursday, i.e., today we, me and Babulalda (the driver) started in the morning at around 6:30 AM and after willfully wasting some time I reached there at around 8:30 AM... we wasted time as she told me over phone that she is not ready yet..
Okay... then
Every thing was going well... suddenly my FiLaw said that he will come some days and will pick them for some social culture such as "Mama Bhat" for our son...
Hmmm....
I said it is not possible and feasible for the baby.... as every one knows about the health conditions of the baby.... and I, particularly, cannot manage to attend any program in recent times... although, it may be helpful if I know in which time he will go to take her...
Then...
Natbar, what I should tell you... they just started shouting like hell.... in front of the driver ... and one thing my MiLaw said which just killed me... ignited me...
what...
She said, "each day I usually come home drunken and severally beat my wife..."
What?
Yes... Natbar... yes... and she was telling all these things in front of me but not to me... she was telling shouting to my driver, Babulalda!
What are you saying?
As you are hearing... Natbar... is it possible? Is it possible in a Flat? is it possible particularly when I reside along with my parents? Yes we celebrate occasionally ... within our family... but is it possible to drink outside and to beat my wife frequently? Will the society of the flat allow me? Am I like that? Have you ever seen any one to tell me about my such activities, ever?
Boss... right now I am not thinking such rubbish things right now... I am thinking that she told such things in front of your driver... and the driver is from uncle's present office... do they know that person... do they know that, babulal da or what may be is from uncle's office...
yeas they know him very well... because many a times Babulalda helped us while visiting doctors... and on 26th babulal da was the driver... we spent there at least 1 hour in that house with babulalda....
Then, dear I must say... they did it INTENTIONALLY... dishonor... defame... you ... your family... otherwise... if , for argument's sake, I believe that you beat your wife then they should talk with your family members first... should warn you... and then go for legal activities... did they said any thing to your family members or you in previous time?
Natbar... I SWEAR IN THE NAME OF MY SON... they (my FIL & MIL) never told me any thing about this... and I believe that they did not say any thing to any of my family members... i.e., baba, ma, dada, boudi... if they did so then not a single person will spare me... never... at least they will talk with me in this respect....
Then what is this?
Natbar, just imagine what was going on my mind in that time? I can not take it any more... are they planning to destroy me?
But why?
I don't exactly know... there may be many reasons... probably as I don't like Uncle-In-Laws for their behavior ... but one thing.... my wife is continuously pressuring me to be separated from my family from the very beginning.... I don't know the reason... but she is doing and I can tell that swearing in the name of my son.... but I don't want to be separated..
But... whatever they did ... I am confused.... did you tell to your parents about these things?
Half of the events told... not all. I did not tell that Babulal da was there or he was invited by FIL into the matter.
Invited means?
My FIL just called babulalda from the car and told him that I am creating antisense over there?
What?
Yes!
Are they insane?
In afternoon today, I had a talk with Babulalda and he just said that "amra lok choriye khai dada... apner sathe manachee na.... ami gotodin-e bujhechilam ... egulo to bolte parina... driver... kintu apni mone kasto paben na.... easily tackle karar chesta korun.... okhane kichu bojhano mane hatike jangiya porano... apni kono step neben na.... bachatar dike takiyee ektu kasto korun.... sir er katha bhabun ... kakimunir katha bhabun.... jadi kokhono mone kosto hoy.... borodada bhebe amar sathe kotha bolun... jodi apni amake apner joggyo mone koren.... ami kichu kharap paini..." ... we had a talk of 14-15 minutes...
Although , what if uncle know the facts... ie babulalda and the allegations ?
He will simply die... die out of shock...
That is.... be careful...
I am trying...
Did the immunization completed?
Yes... ultimately... I manage... but my baby is suffering from diarrhea... they just did not inform me... I knew it just before going to the doctor...
Boss... you should take a break....
From which?
From your life ... from your pains...
Ha ha ha ha haha haha... Natbar, I think I should leave home and go to some mess?
Why?
At least at a mess my wife will not be there and no one will blame me with such rubbish unbelievable...
Think... think think about it.
Yes I must think!
Bye!
Bye! But be judicious... be with serenity...
Ha ha ha ha....